The Ominous Note: The Curious Case of Cody Haynes

“Bye, baby Bunting,

Daddy’s gone a-hunting,

Gone to get a rabbit skin

To wrap the baby Bunting in.”

                                                               ~ Nursery rhyme (1805)

On the morning of September 12, 2004 in the small town of Kittitas, Washington, four little girls woke up to a note commanding them to stay away from their brother Cody’s room. He was being punished, it read. Chairs were strangely placed in the hallway. They were treated to movies in the living room the entire day.

Little did they know, their brother was not in his room, nor was he checked on until 5:00 p.m. that evening. His parents would report him as a runaway about an hour later, although 14 years later and a slew of evidence would prove otherwise.

“Stay a child while you can be a child.”

                                     ~ Stephen Sondheim

cody111Richard Lee Haynes, Jr., known as Cody, was born April 16, 1993 in Littleton, Colorado. He was a beautiful baby with brown hair and green eyes. He grew to be a rambunctious, creative child who made his own candy, loved camping, Legos, swimming, and being outside.

“Cody wanted to be a police officer when he grew up,” Cody’s cousin, Jamey Owens, says. “With his determination, it could have been a reality.”

However, Cody’s tumultuous childhood prevented his dreams from coming to fruition. The children were allegedly abused by their father, and Child Protective Services had been contacted two different times in regards to the children’s wellbeing. (Ironically, Richard Haynes Sr.’s’ girlfriend had formerly worked for CPS.) Cody and his four sisters were homeschooled and extremely sheltered as well, but according to family members, Cody was treated differently.

“A neighbor would see the girls outside, but never Cody,” Jamey recalls. “In fact, the neighbor had no idea a boy lived in the home until he went missing.”Codyhaynes4

On the night of September 11, 2004, police report that Cody got into an argument with his father’s live-in girlfriend, Marla, about doing the dishes. He was forced to remain in the kitchen until almost midnight as a punishment, then sent to his room.

Eighteen hours later, Richard Haynes would report his son as a runaway. He alluded to this theory as stating there was a missing backpack filled with clothes, but the police would later find that bag and Cody’s bicycle in a shed behind the house.

After building up trust with the police department, Cody’s oldest sister would later tell officials that her brother had been beaten mercilessly by their father that night.

“For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed,

and nothing concealed that will not be known or brought out to the open.”

                                             ~ Luke 8:17

In the early morning hours of September 12, 2004, Richard Haynes took the family van and decided to drive to “look for car parts.”

It was 2:30 in the morning. He drove two hundred and fifty miles throughout the state of Washington, returning home at 4:00 that afternoon.

kittitas map
Photo credit: Google Maps

He didn’t contact police about his missing son until two hours later.

Within days, a community-wide search team set out to look for the eleven-year-old boy. Curiously, Richard Haynes and his girlfriend did not participate. No traces of the boy were found. Marla allegedly did not allow Cody’s sisters to be questioned by police; a week later, the four girls would be removed from the home and placed into foster care.

The next month, police requested a formal interview with Richard Haynes, but they refused to speak without their lawyer present.

Valentine’s Day of the following year, the police served a search warrant to scour for blood stains and other evidence in the kitchen of the apartment. According to police reports, the kitchen floor had been replaced – something the apartment landlord did not know about nor give consent to.

The van that Cody’s father had taken the evening of Cody’s disappearance had been sold, but police later recovered it to search for evidence. Bones were eventually found in the area, but were not a match. A computer was also seized from the apartment. A “significant discovery” was found inside the home at one point, but the police have refused to reveal what this clue might be or how it might affect the investigation.


“Bye, baby Cody,

Daddy’s on the roady,

Gone to get ‘car parts’

To destroy your life and break our hearts.”

Each year, residents of Kittitas come together for a vigil to keep Cody’s voice alive.

codyhaynes5Richard Haynes and Marla do not attend. They wrote a note for Cody and posted it on the back door of their apartment, but it is unknown what it says – or if it remains there.

Where could Cody be? With all the evidence stacked up, it is unlikely he ran away. He did not take his bicycle nor any other belongings, and there have been no sightings of him. Allegations of a brutal beating, ripped up floorboards, and a mysterious fourteen-hour trip in the dead of night by Cody’s father are all too suspicious. Richard Haynes and his now-wife have kept a low profile and refuse to speak about Cody’s disappearance.

Is it possible the “significant discovery” is waiting for one more piece of evidence in order to convict someone in Cody’s likely homicide? Are the police waiting for a body to turn up? Where is justice for Cody Haynes?

Many people, including Cody’s cousins, have a grim outlook as to the theory behind Cody’s disappearance.

“We believe Cody died as the result of the beating he suffered that night. His trip to ‘look for car parts’ was not a coincidence. He was gone for fourteen hours and then waited another two hours to report him to police after returning home,” Jamey Owens states.

Regardless of the lack of progress in the case, Cody’s loved ones remain determined to find answers. A $5,000 reward remains posted by the City of Kittitas. The small town refuses to forget the green-eyed boy that captured their attention and their hearts in autumn of 2004 – no matter how many years have passed.

Age progression of Cody Haynes.

Jamey Owens also refuses to forget Cody Haynes, and has a message for the person responsible for his disappearance.

“I will spend the rest of my life getting the truth for Cody,” she assures. “I will never go away or give up. Somebody knows something about his disappearance and they can’t keep quiet forever. Set yourself free and do the right thing!”

She ends with a vow to her baby cousin: “I love you with all my heart, Cody. Never forget that. I’ll see you in my dreams…pinky promise.”


7 Comments Add yours

  1. kimster says:

    Thank you for showcasing Cody! He’s in my heart and I will never stop telling people about what happened to him. May he be found soon!

    Liked by 1 person

  2. Christa Unger says:

    I hope that one day KARMA vites those two adults on the ass! They know what they did and where Cody is now. Maybe when they hit their senior years and senility kicks in they’ll slowly go crazy for their actions and theyll be locked inside their own craziness with horrible dreams.
    Im not one to usually wish ill on anybody, but those two, who were supposed to protect a child do not deserve mercy.
    I say prayers that Cody is resting peacefully knowing that so many people stull remember him and will co tinue to look for him.

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  3. Jamey says:

    Thank you for bringing attention to my Cousin. We will never give up on him and I will fight everyday for answers. JUSTICE FOR CODY HAYNES!
    ~Pinky Promise

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Samantha Vaughn says:

      May our Lord Jesus bless you and your baby cousin. May justice be served to whoever caused him harm 14 hour road trip for car parts my tail end. #PinkyPromise

      Liked by 1 person

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  5. Amber N. Haynes says:

    Please let me make a few things clear. Jamey Owens is not related to my family in any way and is always saying she is our cousin, when she isn’t. HOWEVER, I do appreciate her determination for continuing to search for the truth when even I his youngest sister don’t even believe that I will ever know what truly happened that night. All I know is what I remember. But I was 8 years old at the time and didn’t fully understand the situation. It wasn’t my biological dad beating Cody, it was Marla. Cody did go outside with us ALL the time. We all went outside every day for at least 1 hour. If the neighbor you are referring to was the older lady that lived next to us, you do know she was on a ton of different meds and had dementia, right? Her memory was always inaccurate. The van had not been sold it “disappeared” (I honestly think Marla had hidden it until she could do what she wanted to it to hide evidence) and was later found on fire. Literally, it was like someone blew the thing up. My father didn’t know what was really going on in the home or even knew we were being abused, he had severe frontal lobe damage to his brain from his time serving in the army when a land mine blew up next to him. He also had silent seizures, which destroy parts of the brain, mostly the memory part of the brain. I will always love my brother, I’ll never forget him. I have a tattoo that I designed on my right arm near the shoulder in honor of him, and he didn’t want to be a police officer when he grew up, that’s what he wanted to be for that years Halloween. He wanted to be a NASCAR driver. He absolutely loved NASCAR, and everything about it. And my brother was born with BLUE eyes, just like the rest of us…his eyes weren’t green. Though as we get older our eyes do take in more yellowish-golden with the blue which makes it a type of Hazel…not Green. I don’t know about any note, but Marla had taken the dining table chairs and blocked off the way to his room and the second bathroom. I woke up slightly later than my sisters that day and they told me that Marla had told them that Cody was in trouble and we were not to go near his room. Fearing her wrath if we ever disobeyed her, we did as we were told and stayed away from our brother even though we were worried. It was a duffel bag filled with clothing, not a backpack, just so you know. If you have any questions you can ask me. I am his little sister. Forever and Always my Big Brother Best Friend Forever. I love and miss him daily.


    1. Lindsay Schraad says:

      Hi Amber,

      Could you please email me at I would love to ensure this article is accurate.

      Thank you so much.


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